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OVERCOMING SHYNESS
Dogs, like people, have unique
personalities. In the dog, breed (or ancestor) characteristics play an
important part in an individual dog's personality. Dog behavior is not
an argument for or against nature or nurture, but rather a beautiful composition
of both. The confident, outgoing dog is so in part because his parents
bestowed him with certain genes that predisposed him to act that way.
Once born, however, his environment began shaping and reshaping his personality.
So too with the shy or fearful dog. The confident or shy dog is neither
born nor made, but something in-between.
Once upon a time, dog owners
let their dogs out in the morning and called them home for supper. Much
of a dog's day was his own, to explore, encounter, visit, and play. Today,
the dog owner must be responsible for taking an active part in the social
life of his friend. Beyond genes, socialization is the key ingredient
to a well-mannered, friendly dog. While the tendency towards shyness and
fear may have its foundation in the genetic make-up of the dog, these
inappropriate behaviors can usually be avoided or overcome through continued
socialization from an early age coupled with training and behavior modification.
A young dog needs to be exposed
to people, animals, and other dogs, as well as to different places and
situations. Each encounter should be positive, lighthearted, and fun.
As the socialized dog grows, so does his confidence. Yet, the older dog
who is already shy or fearful can also be taught to be more outgoing and
confident.
Basic obedience training is vital
to helping your shy dog overcome his fears. Here are some tips to help
you help your dog. Take your dog for a short walk. As you notice fear
beginning to develop, give a command to heel, sit, or down. Immediately
follow his obedience with a treat like Milk-Bone Doggie Bag Treats or
a small MilkBone Biscuit. Add plenty of praise then continue on your walk,
repeating the exercise as needed. Start with short walks. As your dog
develops more confidence, increase the length and difficulty of your walk
by adding new sights, observing strange objects, walking at night, or
traveling near noisy areas. You can place a Milk-Bone Biscuit on that
scary fire hydrant, then encourage your dog to investigate it. When he
does, he will reward himself with the biscuit! Soon strange objects evoke
curiosity, not fear.
You should walk with an air of
confidence, after all your dog is keying on your behavior, So set a good
example. Try to avoid coddling, protecting, or babying your dog when he
is afraid. Your reactions to your fearful dog, although given out of love,
may actually encourage more fearfulness.
The basic principle behind your
special walks is to encourage your dog's confidence by rewarding obedience,
exploration, and confident behavior. At the same time, shy or fearful
behavior is ignored or redirected into a confidence-building activity.
Each positive experience brings your dog one step closer to overcoming
his shyness and fears. And, it's good exercise and a wonderful way to
strengthen the bond with your dog.
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